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For the edification of the masses

[Edit: If you were forwarded here via the link to the Bit of Earth message board, here's what I have to say about that URL hack.]

Victoria Bitter as Frodo, from 2001.

Victoria Bitter, from 2002 Connexions.

Mister Frodo and OrangeblossomB, from 2003. This image was caught just before OB deleted it from the Bit Of Earth server when she was confronted with the question of [info]misterfrodo's identity.

In other words, beyond a shadow of a doubt, [info]misterfrodo is [info]victoriabitter, [info]victoriabitter is not dead, and [info]victoriabitter is living with [info]orangeblossomb, the very woman who says she's an ex-parrot.

Honestly, I wouldn't believe a single word out of either of them ever again. They're blatant liars and throw around wild accusations when confronted with the truth. Faking your death online does not make you a sympathetic character, nor lying about it to cover your antics. Give it up.

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So I'm trying to explain this to Jim as we're eating breakfast quietly in the morning. "See, this is Victoria. The one dressed as Frodo. That's orangeblossom, the one, well I guess she's Sam. With the hair glued on. I told you I wasn't making that up."

He keeps getting the names confused, but I can understand. He looks a little worried about the whole online thing now. "She's misterfrodo now. She uh, died. Then she got instantly reincarnated, apparently with a penis."

I don't want to say it, but... a strap-on?

Oooooooowwwww.

*scrubs brain with brillo*

Since when is VB supposed to be dead, anyway? This is news to me!

(FWIW, I hadn't seen the picture, but was going by similarity in writing and drawing styles and the timing of Mr. Frodo's appearance to draw my conclusion as to "his" identity, which I think are far too similar for coincidence.)

OB's been telling everyone VB died four months after she came to live with OB. No idea *why* and she was vague about it. Guess she couldn't think of a good story to use.

OB just posted an indignant screed about how she does not appreciate her "current" boyfriend, Misterfrodo, being confused with her "late ex-girlfriend," Victoria Bitter. Where the hell is Shirley Maclaine when you need her, anyway?

Good lord, is everyone in this fandom insane? This is just unbelievable.

Lorelei, I'm gonna make you fill me on the details on chat this week - I've heard of Victoria Bitter, of course, but know next to nothing about her. Now I'm very, very curious... faking deaths, for god's sake. What is wrong with these people?

That's why I guessed Mr. Frodo might be VB, too--the timeline matched up. And the artistic emergences were the next best hint, sure enough. Sounding like a broken record; I've already said this to Mary, but it's good to know I wasn't the only one sitting here and noticing coincidences too creepy to ignore. Actually, the fact that it seems quite a few people had their suspicions and just didn't speak up--that goes to show just how much they were failing to hide in the first place.

So, between this and the intelliw*nk in-fighting and Rhysenn's recent "Give me money so I can win the Nobel for literature" antics, can I start a bake sale to buy panties for fandom? There are so many huge, crater-strewn asses showing lately that it's starting to put me off my lunch.

The wank is deep. I think we need to get some rubber boots to get through this recent downpour.

I'll buy a muffin or two from you to support such a good cause!

A few people *cough* [info]orangeblossomb *cough* need to learn a few things about web site building so that directory contents aren't listed.


This was incredibly stupid, and she was trying to guilt me and everyone else by saying VB committed suicide. Tacky, tacky. Um, gee, what would Sean Astin think of such behavior from his fans?

Why? What's listed in what directory? (Just because I'm nosy.)

The Mind Boggles...

...and having boggled, continues to boggle, writhe and generally squirm and struggle with confusion.

Pam, babe - I was going to say "We've all had exes like that," but in this case I haven't. Extrabloodyordinary.

Re: The Mind Boggles...

Some of us, of course, have been the ex like that. Wait, I should probably keep that to myself.

Either that's her (or, um, him) or OB got herself a boyfriend that looks a little too much like her recently dead girlfriend. Something that would be very disturbing. ::shivers::

It's a clooooone!

Now, I will grant that I spent a month searching for a green-and-gray striped tie, and that I talked my girlfriend into sewing a set of black robes, but, um....

Those two scare me.

I was wondering how they would keep on with this gauzy little ruse when Project Elanor rolled around. Convenient absence and "Mr. Frodo couldn't make it"? or dressing V in baggy clothes and manning her up as much as possible?

The sad thing is, when I used to talk to VB on IM two years ago, I had some respect for her. I thought she was a bit of a mixed-up kid, unsure of herself, with attention junkie tendencies but with talent in there and something to offer the world. I don't really know OB from my left elbow. Maybe they can salvage this mess.

I'm reminded of an incident in a Yahoo! chat back I was in back in '98, where a girl faked that she was in a horrible car accident and was in a coma. One of the chatters, a nurse who knew Car Accident Girl's name and where she was from, called multiple hospitals asking if she was a patient there, she wanted to get some of us together, fly out and see her if possible, or at least send flowers and cards. Then she called Car Accident Girl's parents (since she thought there was a chance the hospitals weren't giving out info)and found out that Girl was alive and well and intact. CAG was exposed for fraud, we all were angry. What did CAG do in the end? She came into the chat the next day, publicly apologized and went into counseling. CAG instantly rose in our respect meter and we all moved past the mess and were friends again.

I don't know the whole story around this whole thing but from what i understand. These ppl are screwy. Yup. I don't understand why these ppl would do something like that and the pics, misterfrodo does look identical to victoriabitter. O.O

Dude, I don't know any of these people - even you - but fuck. That's so far beyond Fucked Up it would take the light from Fucked Up a thousand light years to reach it.

mmmmmm, I love your phrasing. It is like poetry!

*adores*

I have friendified you.

You said to let you know.

Dude, I have to find a way to get this into the FAQ. XD

It's like a car accident - you don't want to look, but you just can't help it. Bring on the nutballs.

I'm friending you due to your f_w love, and the fact you're entertaining and make kiddie!Elijah pr0n that id BAD, BAD AND WRONG. Go you.

Dear god almighty. That's just insane. Sick, even. The amount of mental unstability and mindfucking there is unbelievable.

They need help and soon.

There should really be a list of fandom nutcases. People who are known to fuck with other people for their own gain 'cause I now know of three (including VB & OB) and oddly enough, all have been active in some form of LotR or Lotrips. O.o

:hugs:

ok, haven't read the comments yet - but want you to send me a nice long letter detailing it all. cause last I heard she'd just gone offline.

her life had gone kerbluey etc..etc...

so, fill me in ? cause hey, I figure everyone and anyone she's ever kissed ought to know what the hell is going on - right ?

and ok, I'm also curious - so if you want to vent, vent. if you don't want to vent - could you tell me anyway ?

The dirt I've been handed on them since Connexions could fill volumes. Get yourself on AIM and I can tell you what I can make coherent. My cable modem's down right now b/c of the snowstorm, but try me later. It'd be easier to converse about than to narrate in a letter, because it's so convoluted.

Since I have been promoted to the position of your mindless lackey, I've added you to my friends list.

Aww, but I wanted to be a lackey! *pout*

You dont want to know this, but....

As soemone who started getting homosexual urges at 11 and a facintation with the whole S&M thing not long after i find that whole "teenagers are children" mentality particulalrly offensive. I'm not messed up, i've never been abused in any way and my parents had (and have) very healthy sexual attitudes, i was a normal kid who happened to go through puberty earlier than some people and got all the emotions that go with it, and i know i wasn't the only kid who got shit for not being enough like a child .... I mean sure people might object to soemthing like that on the grounds that the guy was below the legal age but a lwa like that is a law, red tape and paper. nothing to do with human reactions and therfore not one that it's immoral to go against in those circemstances. Some people should get off their high horse and stop thinking the're entitled to pass judgement about when somebody is old enough to have interests in such things. In short it's none of their fucking buisness!

In short i'm on your side and i'm sorry if this was too personal as we dont really know each other. I'm sorry you ended up in the middle of this shit

(Anonymous)
random lurker puts in her 2centsworth...

yeah, I've been reading nc-17 fanfic since I was 13 yrs old. (nobody b*tch at me, please, I'm 18 now). Obviously, kids will feel urges, and telling them not to will only cause trouble. I think that it is catagorically unhealthy for an adult to return that interest, which is why kiddie-porn is always wrong. However, this picture does not, in my opinion, fall into the kiddie-porn catagory. I admit that I didn't like it - I don't kink in the bruises-and-collar direction - but I think the body type is consistant with a young & skinny adult.

heh. does anyone even remember the picture that started the tempest-in-a-teacup? We've pretty much diverged into sex changes and character assasination now... I, too, have an ex-significant who sounds a little like VB... faked her suicide on AOL no less than three times... really, completely insane...

(Anonymous)
This whole incident makes me so sad...

There was no need to destroy The Prancing Pony, a site dear to many people who have made very close friends there, and a site which is also the home of many creations that were the result of the imagination and work of its members.

There was no need to then take the address of The Prancing Pony and direct it here.

A person's private life is their own. I did not ask to learn details about a person's private life. I respect privacy. Whoever created the link, and I do not assume to know who it was, does not appear to do so.

I am saddened beyond belief to be hurt in such a fashion, and to know that people will do this without consideration of the damage to all.

I am not here to engage in discussion, only to state what effect this action has had on me. That cannot be argued with, because it is my feeling that I am expressing. Please understand that if I am attacked because I have simply expressed the pain caused by this action, that this will simply reflect upon the attacker, and not on myself.

My apologies to syxer7 for posting this in her journal, when I realize that she may also be the victim of the person setting this up. If so, please know that you have my sympathy.

Rosamunde Brownlocks

Rosamunde Brownlocks

Re: This whole incident makes me so sad...

For what it's worth, I doubt that it's been destroyed. Hacked, yes, and some information will doubtless be lost, but surely BofE has enough sane people working there that someone makes a weekly tape backup.